Question: Earlier I was asked this question. “Receiving a new pastor can feel a little unsettling. Do you have anything in mind that might help ease the transition?”
Response: I was at a track meet today in which my youngest daughter, Kathryn, was competing. Those of you who have been a spectator at a track meet know there is a lot more waiting than spectating. Even though I had taken a book to read, my mind was more focused on the questions I have received and the responses I gave. As I thought about this question, I realized I left out the most important thing – and I had even preached on it the day before!
Psalm 37 begins with the words “Fret not,” or “Do not fret.” Three times in the first nine verses of the Psalm we are given this instruction. Unfortunately, when I am agitated enough over something that I am already fretting (worrying or anxious), I need a little more than to know I shouldn’t be doing it in order to stop. What I need is a positive activity to replace the activity that I should not be doing. In the psalm God gives us several things to focus on that will keep us from fretting.
Beginning in verse 3 we see we are to…
1. Trust in the Lord
2. Do good
3. Dwell in the land
4. Delight yourself in the Lord
5. Commit your way to the Lord
6. Be still before the Lord
7. Wait patiently for the Lord
8. Hope in the Lord
I want to draw your attention to the very first one, “trust in the Lord.” Many times we think we are trusting in God when what we are really doing is trusting in what we think God ought to, or is going to, do. That is not trusting God. That is trusting in our own opinion.
When we trust God, we are not trusting in a particular outcome as much as we are trusting the character of God. We are trusting his love for us, his wisdom and understanding, and his objectives for our lives. Even though God blesses us with some understanding of what he is up to from time-to-time, there is never a time on this side of heaven when we fully and completely understand God or his ways. That‘s what makes him God and what makes us fallible people.
It is unsettling to receive a new pastor. It is unsettling for the pastor to go to a new place. If we determine together that God wants us to share life and ministry as people and pastor, then let’s actively place our trust in him to the degree that any feelings of unsettledness have no place to land in our hearts and minds.